The Real Budget: Wants, Needs, and ‘Leakage’

Big purchases get blamed. But most people drown from small leaks they never audit. Most people don’t go broke from one big dumb decision. They go broke from leakage. Little leaks that don’t feel dangerous because each one is small… until you look up and realize your paycheck is gone and you can’t explain where … Read more

Debt-Drunk Nation: How Credit Turned Adults Into Addicts

Debt is a drug.Not because people are stupid. Not because they’re lazy. But because modern debt hits the human brain the same way a vice does: It gives you relief now… and hands you the bill later. And just like any addiction, the first taste often feels like empowerment. You’re an adult now. You have … Read more

Join the My Philippines Retirement Facebook Community

Retiring in the Philippines isn’t just about beaches, sunsets, and cheap living — it’s about community, shared experience, and learning from the people who have already walked the road you’re about to take. That’s exactly why I created the My Philippines Retirement Facebook Group, and why I’m inviting you to join us. This group is … Read more

Cost of Living in the Philippines — Fantasy vs. Spreadsheet

Calculator, receipt, and coin stacks on a clean blue card—cost of living

The internet is full of “live like a king in the Philippines on $1000./month” claims. True if you don’t mind living in a rat infested Nipa hut in the jungles of the provinces, Reality: your cost depends on city, lifestyle, medical needs, and AC usage. Here’s a sober framework to build your budget (and not … Read more

Trusted Philippines Resources

Blue resource card with books, link chain, chat-on-phone, map pin, and a small sun badge—Philippines resources.

Why I’m Pointing You to Mike and Pea My friend Mike came to the Philippines in his late 60s, traveled the islands, then settled down in Dumaguete and married a wonderful Filipina. He’s living the good life and has spent the last few years vlogging about the Philippines—candid, practical, and no fluff. Here on my … Read more

Cebu vs. Dumaguete vs. Manila: Where Should You Retire?

If you’re an American eyeing the Philippines, you’ll hear the same three places over and over: Manila (Makati/BGC), Cebu/IT Park/Ayala, and Dumaguete/Valencia/Dauin. But there are way more you havn’t heard of that don’t require big city life. Here’s the simple, no-nonsense way to help you choose. Philippines are comprised of more than 7000 islands with … Read more

An American Expat’s Guide to Retiring in the Philippines

Thinking about swapping snow shovels for palm trees? The Philippines can be an incredible place to retire: warm weather, widespread English, welcoming people, and a lower cost of living. It’s not all sunsets and San Miguel, though. Here’s a straight-shooting guide from someone who actually lives there. Where to land (quick takes) Visas (what actually … Read more