Aswangs, Duwendes, and Black Cats: What Americans and Filipinos Fear

Americans grew up with black cats, broken mirrors, Bigfoot, and the Boogeyman. Filipinos have aswangs, duwendes, kapres, tikbalangs, and plenty more. After retiring to the Philippines, I discovered our superstitions may be different—but the reasons behind them aren’t.

Bayanihan: Why You May Come to the Philippines Alone—but You Don’t Have to Be Alone Here

Bayanihan is more than a Filipino tradition. After a landslide struck our property in Puerto Galera, I experienced firsthand what happens when a community comes together—and why an American retiree may come to the Philippines alone but doesn’t have to remain alone here.

Filipino Time: When 6:00 Doesn’t Always Mean 6:00

If someone in the Philippines tells you the party starts at 6:00 PM, does that really mean 6:00? Here’s what American retirees should understand about ā€œFilipino time,ā€ why it exists, and when being late definitely isn’t acceptable.

The Skin Tone Paradox: Why Americans Tan While Filipinos Buy Whitening Soap

One of the biggest culture shocks I experienced in the Philippines wasn’t the food or the language—it was discovering that while Americans spend money trying to get tan, many Filipinos spend money trying to get lighter skin. The reasons have everything to do with history.

What Filipinos Eat, Where They Shop, and Why It Matters More Than You Think

If you want to understand the Philippines, don’t start with politics or economics. Start with food. What Filipinos eat, where they shop, and how they share meals reveals a lot about life and culture in the Philippines.

Why Are Filipinos So Happy and Cheerful?

One of the first things foreigners notice in the Philippines is how cheerful people seem despite economic hardship. After years of living here, I’ve come to believe Filipino happiness is less about wealth and more about family, faith, community, and resilience.

The Longest Christmas Season on Earth: Welcome to the Philippines’ Ber Months

Discover why the Philippines celebrates the world’s longest Christmas season. From the Ber Months and parols to Simbang Gabi and family fiestas, here’s what expats should know.

Filipinos and Their Sandals: What Flip-Flops Taught Me About Home

Ever notice how what we expats call flip-flops are pretty much the national footwear of the Philippines? Sandals—tsinelas—are everywhere. Jeepney? Sandals.Market day? Sandals.Mountain trail that would make a goat nervous? Still sandals. Not tennis shoes for traction.Not boots for motorcycle safety.Not galoshes for the mud. Just those trusty rubber sandals, slapping along like it’s the … Read more